stay in your house then. you can't visit someone's home for more than a day and just sit in the living room or lie down in the bedroom while they're in the kitchen doing everything. even if you can't help with the cooking or chores, at least stay in the kitchen with them and keep them company. It's basic courtesy.
i swear i'm just finding out that people expect someone who's visiting for a few days to help out with chores around the house. walahi this is new to me😭