INTIMACY WITH GOD: KNOWING HIM PERSONALLY
Job 22:21 (NKJV)
“Now acquaint yourself with Him, and be at peace; Thereby good will come to you.”
Jeremiah 9:23-24 (NKJV)
“Thus says the Lord: ‘Let not the wise man glory in his wisdom….But let him who glories glory in this, That he understands and knows Me, That I am the Lord, exercising lovingkindness, judgment, and righteousness in the earth. For in these I delight,’ says the Lord.”
Knowing God vs. Knowing About God:
Many possess accurate theological knowledge—facts about His attributes, doctrines, or Bible stories—yet lack a living, relational connection with Him.
Knowing about God is intellectual while knowing God
is intimate, personal, and transformative—an ongoing relationship of love, trust, and communion, like that of a child with a loving Father.
The Apostle Paul expressed this deep longing in Philippians 3:10 (NKJV):
“that I may know Him and the power of His resurrection, and the fellowship of His sufferings, being conformed to His death.”
Paul’s cry was for experiential knowledge of Christ—intimate fellowship that reshapes every part of life.
Anchored in God’s Word:
God invites us into this closeness. Job 22:21 calls us to “acquaint yourself with Him,” implying deep personal connection that brings peace and blessing. Jeremiah 9:23-24 declares that our greatest boast should be in truly understanding and knowing the Lord.
Enoch: A Powerful Example of Intimacy:
Genesis 5:24 (NKJV) says of Enoch: “And Enoch walked with God; and he was not, for God took him.”
Enoch walked with God as a Father for hundreds of years amid a corrupt world. His life was marked by relationship, not religious performance. So deep was his intimacy that God simply took him to heaven. Enoch shows that close fellowship with God is possible in any season and that pleases Him greatly (Hebrews 11:5).
The Challenge of Religion and Spiritual Performance:
Many Christians today chase religion instead of relationship This can produce a form of godliness without power (2 Timothy 3:5), leading to burnout, pride, or emptiness. True intimacy flows from grace, not striving. It is received through surrender, not earned by performance.
Practicing His Presence:
Intimacy grows through practicing the presence of God—moment-by-moment awareness that He is with us (Matthew 28:20). Like Enoch, we can walk with Him daily.
Practical Steps to Cultivate Intimacy with God:
1. Set Apart Daily Time with God
Begin each day with unhurried prayer and Scripture. Read not just to study, but to listen and respond. Psalm 63:1 (NKJV): “O God, You are my God; Early will I seek You…”
2. Practice Continuous Conversation
Turn everyday activities into dialogue with God—thank Him while driving, ask for wisdom in decisions, invite Him into conversations. Brother Lawrence called this “practicing the presence of God.”
3. Worship and Gratitude
Regularly worship through singing, prayer, or quiet adoration. Maintain a gratitude journal, thanking God for who He is and what He has done. This shifts your heart toward Him.
4. Obey Quickly and Listen
Intimacy deepens through obedience. When the Holy Spirit prompts you, respond promptly (John 14:21). Create space to listen—through silence, meditation on Scripture, or journaling what you sense God is saying.
5. Embrace Solitude and Stillness
Regularly withdraw from noise to be alone with God (Mark 1:35). In stillness, we often hear His voice more clearly. Psalm 46:10 (NKJV): “Be still, and know that I am God.”
6. Meditate on God’s Character
Reflect on His names, attributes, and promises. Knowing Him as loving Father, faithful Friend, and sovereign Lord fuels deeper trust.
7. Walk in Fellowship with Others
Share your journey in accountable relationships. The early church grew in intimacy with God together (Acts 2:42).
8. Surrender Daily
Lay down performance, worries, and distractions. Renew your surrender each morning: “Lord, I want to know You more today.”