Over the past decade, my work has deepened and expanded — not away from what I’ve done, but into a fuller picture of what’s actually needed. I still work closely with men. And I now work just as intentionally in prevention — because by the time most men find this work, the damage has often already been done. The men I work with today were once boys who didn’t receive the containment, guidance, or respect their nervous systems needed to mature wholly. So let me be clear about what I do. Through The Mars Contract, I continue to work directly with men — particularly around sexual trauma, mother wounds, nervous system regulation, shame, and the long-term effects of cultural emasculation. This includes supporting men with: • healing childhood trauma • resolving sexual shame and insecurity • nervous system repair and integration • reclaiming confidence, agency, and embodied masculinity • addressing issues like ED and performance anxiety through natural, trauma-informed approaches This is deep, reparative work. And it remains essential. At the same time, I now work upstream — because healing is powerful, but prevention is transformative. That’s where Mars Rising comes in. Mars Rising is about supporting mothers who want to raise sons with: • confidence without arrogance • sensitivity without collapse • responsibility without shame • strength without the need to control or force This work is about creating the conditions where healthy masculinity can actually emerge. Because boys don’t become strong men by being rescued. They become strong when they’re trusted, challenged, and supported to rise. This isn’t about "fixing" men. It’s about restoring internal safety, self-leadership, and grounded strength — at every stage of life. How to Stay Connected: If this work resonates, here’s where to begin: 🔹 Start with the Mars Rising Course 12 Common Ways Mothers Unintentionally Emasculate Their Sons — and Exactly How to Shift It A practical, grounded foundation for mothers raising boys. 👉 Access the course here: themarsrising.myflodesk.com/… 🔹 Join the Newsletter This is where I share updates, new offerings, reflections, and openings — across both Mars Contract and Mars Rising. 👉 Subscribe here: For Mothers: themarsrising.myflodesk.com/… For the Men: themarsrising.myflodesk.com/… 🔹 Private Coaching (Limited) For men seeking deep, reparative work, or for women ready for more personalized guidance. Availability is limited and by request. 👉 Request information here: hello@themarscontract.com or visit my Website: theMarsContract.com 🎥 YouTube Channel Long-form teachings on masculinity, containment, healing, and leadership. 👉 Coming SOON!!! This work matters — not because men are "broken", but because too many were never properly supported in becoming who they were meant to be. Real power is rooted. Containment creates capacity. If this resonates, stay close. We’re just getting started. Root deep. Rise whole. 🖤

Conscious women are choosing celibacy because they don’t want their wombs to be an energetic dumping ground for men’s unhealed trauma. A lot of men haven’t done shadow work, so they aren’t capable of deep soul intimacy or heart connected lovemaking with a conscious woman.

Please get addicted to thinking everything will always work out for you.

Sending love from St. Maarten 🥰😎

When women collectively agree to not lower their standards, the algorithm has no choice but to send better quality content. That’s how women inspire the rise of Divine Men!

I’m headed out of the country until Sunday for a private coaching intensive with a longtime client aboard his sailboat. Four years ago, he wasn’t a captain. He didn’t own a sailboat. He wasn’t running charter tours in the Caribbean. Like many men, he was doing what he thought he was supposed to do: Providing. Working. Taking care of everyone else. His entire life revolved around his family and what they wanted from him. On paper, he had everything: The big house. The successful IT career. The “happy” family. But somewhere along the way, he lost himself. No hobbies. No vision. No real sense of purpose beyond his responsibilities. He had become the dependable provider, but not the author of his own life. During our work together, we uncovered something simple, but life-changing: He had never given himself permission to ask what he wanted. Or who he wanted to become. The sailboat was never the goal. The sailboat was the result of finally giving himself permission to live. This weekend, we aren’t starting over. We’re expanding on what he’s already built. What’s next. What creates meaning. What leaves a legacy he can feel proud of. That’s the work I love most— Helping men reconnect with themselves, reclaim their agency, and build lives they are genuinely excited to wake up to. If this resonates with you, starting next week I have three private coaching spots available. Send me an email. Tell me where you are. Tell me where you want to be. Tell me what you’ve sacrificed to become the man everyone needed—and what part of yourself you’ve left behind along the way. I will read every message personally. Sometimes a man doesn’t need another strategy. Sometimes he just needs someone capable of seeing him clearly enough to remind him who he is. Let me be that witness.

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The more authentic you become… The more loyal you are to yourself and the truth… The more uncomfortable you’ll make people who benefited from your silence, compliance, and conformity.

In honor of what’s really important in June Men’s Mental Health Awareness I want to take a minute to remind everyone Every month, roughly 3,200 men die by suicide. That’s 100 fathers, sons, brothers, and friends lost every single day, one every 13 minutes. Brothers, I’m proud of you all. This world is genuinely better with you in it.

BC FCK U THATS WHY ✨✨✨

"Healthy Masculinity is DEEPLY rooted in self-leadership." But boys can’t develop self-trust if they’re never allowed to think, choose, fail, and recover for themselves. If we always lead for them, they never learn how to lead themselves. Course: themarsrising.myflodesk.com/…

What seems silly or trivial to you… may actually be the doorway into your son’s inner world. Don’t miss the connection trying to happen. Because eventually: “Mom doesn’t get this” becomes “Mom doesn’t get me.” 🥺😬😮‍💨 Course: themarsrising.myflodesk.com/…

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