Everyone i look up to or responsible for assisting is fucking deaf to what i have to say until the second theyre annoyed with me over something completely innocuous :)

Lol, lmao

> see tweet of someone saying P sucks > ask if they are 3.6 GnW or ICs main > they dont understand > pull out illustrated diagram explaining what is 3.6 GnW and what is ICs > they laugh and say "its a bad game, sir" > check who they main > its 3.6 GnW

"Just read the vibes br-"

Brain has been wanting to pick up cigarettes for months now. I have no idea why Its a fucking bad idea but i think its just sick of the outside looking nothing like the inside or some other pseudo psychoanalyitcal whining

Singlehandedly the greatest relationship advice I can give. Solve problems by rising to the best version of yourself, rather than getting someone to meet you at the worst version of yourself. Change how you see yourself before you try to change how other people see themselves

It's insane how loving you can be when you feel in control of your life. Believe in who you are and where you're going, the light just switches on. Interpersonal relationships quickly become a breeze You don't care about keeping score anymore. You're not as weird about needing space or validation. It's no longer someone's fault because you no longer see yourself as a victim. Easy to fill the cups of others when your own is overflowing

Another tough pill i've had to swallow lately is being neglected by 1 group in society doesnt entitle you to compensation from another. You have to follow the same social steps as everyone else. being deprived of connection does not entitle you X group becoming close with you.

i need advice wat to do when you've forgotten someone's name but you've been acquaintances for long enough that it's way past the point where it's socially acceptable to ask them their name again

All addiction, at its heart, is addiction to unconsciousness. It doesn’t matter if it’s social media addiction or heroin addiction. The addict is always trying to block out consciousness by covering it in stimulation or numbness. This means the cure to addiction is always more consciousness. But consciousness can’t just be willed into existence. Instead, developing consciousness is closely linked to developing insight. This is because usually the reason we want to hide in unconsciousness is that there’s something we don’t want to be conscious of. Something in our world that contradicts the story we want to tell ourselves about the world. Perhaps we want to believe that we can always avoid pain and only experience pleasure. So we try to push pain into unconsciousness. Or we want to believe that the things we love will last forever. So we try to push any sign of decay or change into unconsciousness. Or there is some story we want to believe about ourselves and who we are. So we try to push anything that contradicts that story into unconsciousness. So the way to overcome our addiction to unconsciousness is to build accurate world models. When we learn to view the world as a place that includes suffering, is impermanent and is free of stable selves, reality starts to match our worldview. With this insight in place, we no longer need to push suffering, impermanence, and things that threaten our sense of self out of consciousness. Consciousness then naturally expands of its own accord.

This interaction kinda broke my heart and I'm still thinking about it, so figured I would share.

this one is absolutely nuts

From supporting Habitat for Humanity efforts to actively obstructing charity. my how times have changed

will probably never touch this again so here

Society if ESTJ "people" were not allowed to hold white collar jobs or any seat in government

theyre actually eating up the drunk excuse thats insane This is indisputably a character problem

Spend enough time investigating causes where others simply take the end effect for granted and genius is literally inevitable This is the fount of originality, of invention, of resourcefulness, of every quality that takes you to Greatness

If you want to be competent in any domain you need to spend a lot of time noticing things, the effect they have on others and yourself, and HOW and WHY that effect is enacted