Today, Boston.com and @BostonGlobe's advice column Love Letters, turns 16 years old. 💌 🎂
@MeredithGoldste: To those who’ve read for years or listened to the podcast – and to new faces – thank you.
Here's the first letter from 2009: trib.al/FWSz5Jw
ALT Love Letters, the daily relationship advice column, turns 16 years old today. The first person to submit a Love Letter was ‘Desperate in Rockland’ who asked for help dating a shy man.
“He won’t even show me his feet.”
Today’s Letter Writer has been dating someone for three months, but their boyfriend’s immature friends are disrespectful to them and he doesn't correct them.
@MeredithGoldste says “Even at 18, we do not wait for people to grow out of things.”
Read more: trib.al/4Ec5OqO
A Letter Writer asked how other readers may have responded to an ex-partner reaching out years later.
@MeredithGoldste says asking about their current lives can help. “It keeps everything grounded, and no one gets confused by nostalgia.”
Read more: trib.al/MMDVpfX
Costume designer Guy Speranza discusses the strategy for dressing the spies of the Apple TV series “Slow Horses” with the Globe’s @MeredithGoldste. trib.al/nxl4HHr
“As my bestie, her anxieties are my anxieties,” this Letter Writer writes about hooking up with her roommate, a friend of her best friend.
@MeredithGoldste says “Instead of trying to keep this simple, just let it be complicated.”
Read the full letter: trib.al/UZzUiu3
Happy birthday to ESPN's Chicago-based correspondent and SportsCenter anchor @MicheleSteele.
Did You Know? ... Michele speaks fluent French and conversational Tagalog, the language of the Philippines.
I have no clue what I was demonstrating at this moment, but clearly my book talks are very exciting!
Thanks so much to @MeredithGoldste for moderating & @TridentBooks for being such an excellent host.
Today’s Letter Writer wants to get back together with a past situationship, but she’s lost interest.
@MeredithGoldste says “I don’t want you to get anyone back at all. It would be nice to start fresh.”
Read the full letter: trib.al/EKFB0VH
Today is my five-year anniversary at the @BostonGlobe 🌎
Deeply grateful for the opportunity to cover the teams and events that matter most to Boston sports fans. And I am especially indebted to the @BGlobeSports crew for putting up with me. Here’s to the next five years!
Today’s Letter Writer has been in a relationship for about a year, but their partner told them he’s thought about being with other people.
@MeredithGoldste says “Do his fantasies make his relationship with you less pleasurable?”
Read the full letter: trib.al/gjbQTEu
ICYM the lead-up to some genuinely very interesting oral arguments before the MA Supreme Judicial Court last week about engagement ring law, I talked with @MeredithGoldste about the cultural understanding of fault and engagement here:
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Today’s Letter Writer found a past partner online and asks, "Should I connect with my ex on Facebook?"
@MeredithGoldste says “If this decision is fraught, examine why – and then deal with it.”
Read the full letter: trib.al/lsiDF80
Today’s Letter Writer has been dating someone for about a month, but... they can’t stand their dog.
"Sure, you can express irritation sometimes – but also show that you accept the dog as part of the picture," says @MeredithGoldste.
Read the full letter: trib.al/dbQQS1Y
Today’s Letter Writer isn’t sure if they should be concerned their wife still keeps photos of her ex-boyfriends.
@MeredithGoldste says “if the pictures are just there, in a closet, next to high school yearbooks, it's fine.”
Read the full letter: trib.al/lciQrSU