not gonna lie, despite the right wing reputation, every schlubby nerd guy Iโve met at an anime con has been really chill about the trans thing actually
my entire life as a trans woman irl I've always been more comfortable hanging out with weird nerdy men who take a laissez-faire attitude to my queerness then i have with faux positive allies and petite queers because im way less likely to experience transmisogyny that way.