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Navigating Love @NavigatingLove

A Roadmap for Building Healthy Relationships

Joined June 2013
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To help you with your 2018 relationship goals, I've been working on a new way to organize the awesome articles and videos I find on the web. I call it "Save Your Relationship" - buff.ly/2CnnRG8
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Conflict resolution in Navigating Love focuses on what the speaker has control over — him- or herself. (p.97)
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We will tolerate an unfulfilling relationship if the cost of leaving is high enough. (p.84)
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When you fight unfairly, you create a sense of injustice that leads to more fighting. (p.67)
we underestimate the destructive power of our own desire. (p.55) - buff.ly/2jnIQuE
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When we believe we are justified in acting a certain way, it can be difficult to imagine acting any other way. (p.41)
Some people say that dating a person you don’t deserve makes you “lucky.” (p.25) - buff.ly/2jnIQuE
The games we play to attract high-value mates in the short-term rest on beliefs that set us up for failure in the long term. (p.37)
Insight - Navigating Love is about the thin line between desire and dysfunction. (p.12) ow.ly/oNwX3080k1h
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10 Things you should stop doing to be happier, right now. ow.ly/C79Ru
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Happiness not only feels good, it is better for you. ow.ly/C795G

Happiness improves health and lengthens life, review finds

A review of more than 160 studies of human and animal subjects has found "clear and compelling evidence" that -- all else being equal -- happy people tend to live longer and experience better health...

sciencedaily.com
The Dunning-Kruger effect may explain your mate can't see your point of view (part 2). ow.ly/AxVDp

The illusion of superiority | GrrlScientist

GrrlScientist: This video provides a brief look at the Dunning-Kruger effect, which is an analysis of incompetence in those people who are not competent enough to even recognise their own incompetence

theguardian.com
The Dunning-Kruger effect may explain your mate can't see your point of view (part 1). ow.ly/AxVnM

Incompetents are clueless, research shows

If you're incompetent, you'll probably never know. Marc Abrahams has the evidence.

theguardian.com
Ego depletion (the depletion of willpower over time) can lead to bad decision making in relationships (part 3). ow.ly/AxTwH
Ego depletion (the depletion of willpower over time) can lead to bad decision making in relationships (part 2). ow.ly/AxTiJ

Understanding the Dangers of "Ego-Depletion" - The Blog of Author Tim Ferriss

(Image: Someecards) This is a guest post by Dan Ariely, James B Duke Professor of Psychology and Behavioral Economics at Duke University. I’ve always suspected that we start each day with a limited...

tim.blog
Ego depletion (the depletion of willpower over time) can lead to bad decision making in relationships (part 1). ow.ly/AxT5O

Resistance Training For Your 'Willpower' Muscles

In their new book Willpower, psychologist Roy Baumeister and science writer John Tierney explore the science of self-control. Willpower is a limited resource, they say, but with practice and persis...

npr.org
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How 'Power Poses' Can Help Your Career. ow.ly/AvjgD
Your body language shapes who you are. ow.ly/Avj5B

Your Body Language May Shape Who You Are | Amy Cuddy | TED

Body language affects how others see us, but it may also change how...

youtube.com
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Our memories are unreliable. The can create serious problems (part 3). ow.ly/AvizN
Our memories are unreliable. This can create serious problems (part 2). ow.ly/Avilv
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