“Me and her and netball is not a good gel, because I think she thinks I don’t know what I’m talking about. I didn’t make it to her level, so maybe I don’t know what I’m talking about. And she could be right because I think she’s evolved into such a good coach now. I admire her.
Our relationship with netball, I try to only be positive with her when it comes to netball because I find that sometimes I can say things and she’ll take it the wrong way. But that’s because I’m her mum. And other people will tell her the same thing and she’ll take it differently from them. So it’s just that mum-daughter relationship. But yeah, the older she gets, the better it’s getting, I should say.
I’m proud of her whether she’s playing or whether she’s not playing. She has had it rough. She’s been through some adverse stuff, but to see her on that court. Oh, God, it fills me with pride. I get really emotional, especially when she’s had a good game. Don’t get me wrong, if she’s had a bad game, I’m the first one to tell her you were shit: ‘You were absolutely shocking’. I will be the first one, but nah, she’s made me proud of the young lady she’s become. And her journey in netball hasn’t been easy, because there’s been times when she’s wanted to quit. And I’m talking from back in club, when we were pushing her at under 16 or regional or nationals. And she was like, ‘No, it’s too much mum’, she wanted to quit. But luckily she didn’t because look where she is now.
I think people know better than to come near me with their negativity about my child because I am very, very protective about her. You don’t breathe on her without me going absolutely doolally. So I haven’t heard any negativity. And to be fair to her, all her DMs are positive, positive, positive. There’s kids, adults who are DM’ing her and are saying ‘You’ve just given us a new lease on life’, ‘You make me want to go play netball that I never played before, or continue playing netball’. So she’s got a really positive effect on young ladies and other ones.”
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