Berlaku jg dlm pertemanan, gw berharap gw dan temen2 gw saling punya mutual understanding of each others' emotional needs dan boundaries sih, atau at leastttt kasi gw proper closure kl mmg tidak cocok (saya trauma ditinggal)
while gw paham tiap org punya attachment style masing2, tp kl lu udh buat conscious decision to commit to a relationship, then theres an expectation that u'll show up when things get uncomfortable too, not just when they're easy.
ya hrus ada willingness buat meet halfway lah..