Retired Director of UK Hostage & Crisis Negotiation Training/ “accidental entrepreneur”/#wellbeing #communication #negotiation #people.

Joined February 2017
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❓ How can we make sure we're negotiating effectively to make our lives easier? Nicky Perfect, former police negotiator, shares her top tips for negotiating in our day-to-day lives. Read more of Nicky's advice in our NEW article ⬇️
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Dreading the family getting together over Christmas? You might want to check out the experts' guide to defusing festive flashpoints mol.im/a/12874235 via @Femail featuring great advice from crisis negotiator @Nickycommscoach
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Speaking at PWC this afternoon about negotiation. St Pancreas is looking very christmasy
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The extraordinary stories of the extraordinary life of an extraordinary human being. Highly recommended reading #Crisis@Nickycommscoach
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16 Sep 2023
Readers can't get enough of Crisis by @Nickycommscoach... ‘A fascinating read’ ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ ‘Fabulously written’ ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ ‘I read this in one go!’ ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Read all about a life spent on high alert in this new gripping memoir. Out now: amzn.to/43YnSb9
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12 Sep 2023
Readers love Crisis by @Nickycommscoach... 'Simultaneously exciting and insightful' ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ ‘Fantastic’ ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ ‘Enticing read’ ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ The gripping memoir all about life as a crisis and hostage negotiator is out now. Find out more: amzn.to/43YnSb9
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‘I’m here to listen to Sam, to calm him, to get him to trust me and to bring the stand-off to an end. This is the job of a hostage and crisis negotiator.’ @Nickycommscoach's thrilling new memoir is out now. Find out more: amzn.to/43YnSb9
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Tip if the week 😊
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There are negotiations you are never going to win. It doesn’t matter how good you are, it’s a fact of life. What do you do? You have a choice to make. Collaborate, walk away, be part of the process. This week I lost but gained some concessions. Welcome home Poppie
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Here’s some of the first chapter of the book. Thank you to all those of you who have already purchased the book. If you visit nickyperfect.com and follow the instructions I will happily send you one of my courses free of charge to say thank you 😊
‘He’s in crisis and he needs help. I’m here to listen to Sam, to calm him, to get him to trust me and to bring the stand-off to an end. This is the job of a hostage and crisis negotiator.’ Crisis by @nickycommscoach is out now: amzn.to/43YnSb9
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Thank you so much for the opportunity to be on Woman’s Hour and to all the team who made me feel so welcome.
📢 'Have you ever thought of becoming a negotiator?' Hostage negotiator @Nickycommscoach - who worked at the New Scotland Yard Hostage and Crisis Negotiation Unit - spoke to @bbcnuala about the four modes of listening. 🎧 Listen on @bbcsounds ⬇️
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31 Aug 2023
Happy publication day to this wonderful stack of books! Which of these are joining your bookshelves first? 📚 Find out more: amzn.to/3spi6Cn
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31 Aug 2023
Finally! It's publication day! @Nickycommscoach's Crisis is out today. Discover the day-to-day life of a crisis and hostage negotiator. Shocking, thrilling, and true, these are the stories of a life spent on high alert. #TheCrisisNegotiator Out now: amzn.to/43YnSb9
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24 Aug 2023
One of the first on the scene in situations that most would run from, Nicky is deployed to defuse the most volatile and fraught situations imaginable. Find out about the life of a hostage negotiator in Crisis by @Nickycommscoach. Out in one week: amzn.to/43YnSb9
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What a fabulous, capable, strong, inspirational bunch of human beings… #Lionessess #TheseGirlsCan
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Being a leader was supposed to be fun. It’s Monday morning already. You have woken up and are straight into the to do list. Coffee in hand you are balancing family life with work life, invoices against bills and you know you have to have some difficult…lnkd.in/ew5ifBB9

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Today I am feeling truly blessed and grateful, celebrating an amazing week. I have just read a post from someone I greatly admire about how as a leader we sometimes forget how far we have come as we get caught up in the challenges. This week I have met…lnkd.in/eFnt6HFN
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It’s Friday already and what a week of new experiences it’s been. Yesterday I was asked by a mum how she can tell her teenage son how she feels without it resulting in an emotional conversation. I showed her how to be assertive using an “I” message. In…lnkd.in/eK2w8GRd
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