The problem is a lot of yall niggas did not grow up seeing your moms be pampered.. yall either saw yβall mommas working like dawgs, on drugs, with an abusive ass man or collective government assistance struggling to make ends meet.. a lot of yβall grew up with all half siblings and absent fathers, so you genuinely donβt know what the manβs role is supposed to be and thatβs why a lot of yall canβt fathom giving a woman a soft life and being a provider bc you grew up believing women are supposed to be strong and take care of you! A lot of you niggas donβt even know to hold the door or walk on the outside of the sidewalk bc the only protector you ever had was a woman! Lmao