Mr. Davies,
For a brief, fleeting 10-15 years, WE ALMOST HAD IT. The years between 1998-2012, roughly, we were very close, when no one really gave a damn either way. I remember it distinctly. An enormous shift in attitudeās & acceptance had occurred, after the horrors of being gay in the 80ās to the early-mid 90ās.
I was NOT alone in feeling this, even amongst the upper echelons of the āGay Mafiaā I used to hang around with said the same.
The original aim was EQUALITY & we were, more or less, there.
Then along came identity politics, gender ideology & Que*r Theory, which screwed everything up.
Stonewallās CEO, Ruth Hunt, said in 2014/15, & I quote, that their shift in focus was āknown to be controversial, that it would be difficult, that people would LOSE by that & that herself & the staff thought THAT WAS A PRICE WORTH PAYING.ā In other words, they KNEW this would receive pushback, yet were unwilling to listen or engage with those of us who had serious concerns.
A subsequent Stonewall CEO, Nancy Kelley, called lesbians āsexual racistsā for not including men in their dating pool.
Michael Cashman called for those who had questions, predominantly women, about this shift to be ādefecated uponā & there was āno debateā to be had.
And NOW look where we are.
Look around at the utter mess weāre in.
If youāre going to ālook at yourself as an idiotā, at least be aware of WHY you might feel that way & what part you, yourself, played in it.
You cannot cheerlead & encourage an ideology that has caused so much destruction & damage, & then pretend to be flummoxed as to the reasons WHY everything has got so much worse.
Just so weāre clearā¦