This will come off as very self-aggrandizing and that's ok, but I wanted to share regardless
This New Year has been tough; I didn't set the phone or laptop down hardly over the holidays and thus am missing out on all the recharged back to it energy that many seem to have
Yesterday we found out that someone who works with a client of ours grossly over promised and underdelivered and now myself and my team are paying the price for an unrelated third parties' mistake
Add to that someone close to me found out some horrible family news and I am working to support them and pick up any inevitable slack
All sounds at least a bit stressful? I wasn't in a great mood yesterday
But my wife was in the office and was also stressed with her work stuff
I found myself squeezing in 5 minutes between meetings/tasks to clean the house, do the sheets, and prep her favorite dinner.
That night when she got home it was to a clean house and homemade carbonara, she was beaming
Little stuff sure, but when I was stressed and irritated, I found myself wanting to do things for my wife and being productive, so if I was frustrated/overwhelmed at least I'd be the only one.
I don't have another take away other than I feel exceptionally rich in all the ways that matter.
If the investing, tax, and estate optimization is in service of those larger goals then great. I hope I can help everyone I work with feel the same sense of contentment I did at the end of the day