Okay so society took a turn for him about what, 10000 years ago? Like we've been gathering in groups of more than a hundred for a very very long time...
Ben Affleck says you're supposed to live in a village and see about 100 people in your entire lifetime
"we weren't made evolutionarily as human beings like we're supposed to be living in a village and see about 100 people in our lifetime"
"that's the vast majority of human history...that's how we did it and I still feel like in a way that's how we're socialized...it's why if you feel left out of a group it's very painful"
"even social media for example you looking at stuff you know damn why is everybody life is so good...that's also is a basic primal thing"