The 5-Minute Journal is simplicity itself and hits a lot of birds with one stone: 5 minutes in the morning of answering a few prompts, and then 5 minutes in the evening doing the same.
Each prompt has three lines for three answers.
To be answered in the morning:
I am grateful for . . .
1. __________
2. __________
3. __________
What would make today great?
1. __________
2. __________
3. __________
Daily affirmations.
I am . . .
1. __________
2. __________
3. __________
To be filled in at night:
3 amazing things that happened today . . .
1. __________
2. __________
3. __________
How could I have made today better?
1. __________
2. __________
3. __________
Itās easy to obsess over pushing the ball forward as a type-A personality, which leads to being constantly future-focused. If anxiety is a focus on the future, practicing appreciation, even for 2 to 3 minutes, is counter-balancing medicine.
The 5-Minute Journal forces me to think about what I have, as opposed to what Iām pursuing.
When you answer āI am grateful for . . . ,ā I recommend considering four different categories. Otherwise, you will go on autopilot and repeat the same items day after day (e.g., āmy healthy family,ā āmy loving dog,ā etc.). I certainly did this, and it defeats the purpose.
What are you grateful for in the below four categories?
I ask myself this every morning as I fill out the 5MJ, and I pick my favorite three for that day:
An old relationship that really helped you, or that you valued highly.
An opportunity you have today. Perhaps thatās just an opportunity to call one of your parents, or an opportunity to go to work. It doesnāt have to be something large.
Something great that happened yesterday, whether you experienced or witnessed it.
Something simple near you or within sight.
The gratitude points shouldnāt all be āmy careerā and other abstract items. Temper those with something simple and concreteāa beautiful cloud outside the window, the coffee that youāre drinking, the pen that youāre using, or whatever it might be.
I use Intelligent Changeās bound 5-Minute Journal and suggest it for convenience, but you can practice in your own notebook.
Itās fun and good therapy to review your p.m. āamazing thingsā answers at least once a month.