So you realised you don’t have strong boundaries, now you don’t expect others to… or you don’t feel like others have a right to respect themselves and have boundaries because you don’t respect yourself… you think bc you neglected yourself for others it’s the right thing to do?
bitch i was depressed for months, nobody noticed. i still showed up for people even when i didn’t know how to show up for myself. that’s why i don’t buy the whole “i was going through something” excuse for treating people badly. we’re all going through something