I grew up in a family where boys were given a lot of importance
We were all boys. Not a single girl in the family.
The way we were raised, you can imagine it.
Boys were given more freedom, more importance, and somewhere deep inside, I too developed that sense of superiority without even realizing it.
I carried that mindset for years.
Then I got married.
For the first time, I started noticing the challenges women face every day. Things many men never think about because they never have to experience them.
But the biggest change happened when my first daughter was born a few years ago.
That little girl changed me completely.
Suddenly, every news story involving a girl felt personal. Every struggle a woman faced became easier to understand. Every father's concern for his daughter started making sense.
And this year, when I became the father of my second daughter, those feelings only grew stronger.
Today, I find myself doing small things instinctively.
Offering my seat. Letting women go ahead in queues. Helping wherever I can. Being more respectful, more patient, and more understanding.
I wasn't born a gentleman.
Two little girls taught me how to become one.
I can understand what and why did this man do that here
A girl was walking home at night. Her house was only 250 meters away, but she still booked a ride.
Driver: Why did you book a ride? It shows only 250 meters.
Girl: Some boys are standing ahead. They make dirty comments and are often drunk. Please drop me home.
The driver moved his bag from the front to the back side and asked her to sit. He safely dropped her at her home.
Driver: ₹24.
Girl: Paid. Can I ask you something? When I was about to sit, why did you move your bag from the front to the back?
Driver: Aise hi.
This is called being a gentleman. Because of some people, you feel fear. Because of some people, you feel safe.