I swear to god, this guy is absolutely right. 💯‼️
I always tell my friends that the first step to rising above the manipulation of women is to rise above that of your mother. Once you can do that, no woman can manipulate you—you only allow certain things to the extent you are comfortable with.
This also applies to the love shown to you by women. The day you realize that your mother’s love for you is conditional is the day you realize unconditional love is a myth.
You only recognize the genuineness of love from women by what constitutes their “condition.” To some, it’s just giving them attention, to some it’s money, to some it’s your looks, to some it’s a combination, and to some it’s your intellect. This is the same way you are incapable of loving anyone without these conditions as a man.
In the end, mother or not, everything is attached to something and every love is conditional. Know this and live accordingly.
If you know this young man, please tell him that Àgbà John Doe is so proud of him.
Very brilliant submission.