Lil baby looking at durk cause he den got him in some sht😭😭😭😭

once you cut people out of your life, you need to become very comfortable with them talking bad and making things up about you. bc they will fill your silence and your absence with stories that make them feel better about losing access to you. people rarely take accountability when it’s easier to paint you as the villain.

Stop being so considerate in situations where you are not considered. Kindness is a gift, not an obligation. You'll be drained if you keep pouring into people who don't reciprocate. Protect your spirit and well-being. Redirect your warmth toward those who reflect it back to you.

Respectfully, if you see that two people aren’t dealing with each other anymore, whether it’s a relationship or a friendship, stop telling them what the other is doing. It’s weird. Don’t tell anybody anything about me, and I don’t want to hear anything about anybody else either 🤷🏾‍♀️. It’s common sense and, most importantly, I don’t care. What do I gain from the information, and what reaction are you looking for? I don’t have it to give.

this chapter is called “everything I prayed for & more”

this chapter is called “at least the rent is paid” 🤷🏾‍♀️😭

this chapter is called “the turning point”

this chapter is called “into the unknown”

this chapter is called “just getting started”

out the mix praying for alignment getting my life together learning to keep things private accepting situations for what they are selective with my time chill on everything staying in my lane not bothering anyone hoping no one bothers me

this chapter is called “trust the process”

this chapter is called “watch me” 😊

girl to girl: it's okay to be alone. it's okay to have a dry phone. it's okay to be celibate. it's okay to be selfish. it's okay to have high standards. your peace, your pace, your rules

Although I'm ok with being single, i can't wait to actually meet someone who's actually interested in me. The constant crave of wanting to talk, asking about my day, my feelings, sharing laughter & being heard is so rare nowadays. Nobody communicates anymore. Real is Rare.

what’s not genuine won’t survive around me and I love that.

Never teach a man how to be your man. Don't ask him for anything. Not a date. Not flowers. Not clingy texts. Not morning calls. Not time. Not affection. When a man truly wants you,he moves different on his own. Life's too short to be waiting for someone to act right!

I need a day where I don’t have to do anything and no one needs me for anything. I need a break 😖

This Saturday, I’m thanking God for the conviction to stop playing small and the fire to build a life that actually reflects the vision He gave me. I’m done living in uncertainty, done second-guessing how I’ll make money, and done depending on anything outside of the skills and discipline He’s already placed in my hands. I’m becoming the woman who creates her own income, secures her own peace, and moves with authority, because a woman who can fund her life moves differently, chooses differently, and lives freely.

you don’t need thicker skin - you need safer environments.

There's a reason why the Bible says "Touch not my anointed, and do my prophets no harm." Be careful who you try to hurt & tear down. God will elevate them right in front of your eyes. When God is for you, it really doesn't matter who is against you.

my blessings are custom made, they won't fit you