Net kreeg een stel @NS_online medewerkers een vraag: “Jullie weten bijna alles he?!” De ene antwoordde met: “Bijna alles” Maar die daarnaast zei zachtjes “42” Dankjewel 🤣

Imagine that…

Also men: “Women should be continuously pregnant because that’s what their bodies are made for!” And: “She let herself go after pregnancy and now I’m not attracted to her anymore!”

All. Of. This.

“Just have sex with me because I just took out the garbage and henceforth you owe me that much…” 🤮

“Withholding sex” is one of the most revealing phrases men use, because it assumes sex was already his and she’s refusing to release it. Watch what usually comes before it. He did the dishes. He paid a bill. He quoted religion. He acted sad. He found a dozen ways to frame her body as the reward for his effort. But the question is simple. Did she want him in that moment? If the answer is no, she wasn’t withholding. She didn’t have desire to give. She was angry, hurt, exhausted, disconnected, repulsed, unseen. And women have been so trained to believe refusal is cruelty that they’ll force themselves through sex they don’t want just to avoid being called abusive. That is the sickness underneath the whole argument. Men call it “withholding” because “she doesn’t want me” requires self-reflection. “Withholding” lets him stay entitled.

It only took them 5 minutes to change their minds. Efteling is just simply magical.

books are so cool because there are NO FUCKING ADS IN THEM

It's physically painful to watch society get less and less intelligent, more evıł, weird, and devoid of empathy every single day.

Sentiments like this don’t actually end abortion. They simply just end safe abortions and people will still ‘find ways’. Banning abortion does more harm than good.

Een multitalent is niet meer. Wim T. Schippers gaf Nederland onvergetelijke televisie, iconische personages en de stem van Ernie. Voor velen was hij een jeugdheld. En zijn stem zal blijven voortleven in de warme herinneringen van generaties Nederlanders. Veel dank, Wim, voor alle prachtige momenten die je ons hebt gegeven. Rust zacht. Veel sterkte aan zijn nabestaanden.

Och…💔 ad.nl/show/tv-maker-kunstena…

It did not unrape me. But it saved me from living the rest of my life with a whole bunch of extra consequences.

¿Ustedes han visto alguna vez a los ricos peleándose entre ellos para defender a los pobres? Entonces, ¿Por qué 🤬 hay pobres que se pelean entre ellos para defender a los ricos?

In a heartbeat

I love how misogynists constantly expose that they never bother to read. Inconvenient truths for guys who claim single fathers do better: - Single fathers are much more likely to live with a new partner than single mothers (41% vs. 16%), meaning they often have help. - Single fathers often receive more help from other women than single mothers do from other men (shocker). 1 in 3 kids grows up without a positive male role model, while female family members, new partners, & other women are often happy to step in & be a positive female role model. - In single-parent households, non-custodial fathers are more likely to withdraw entirely from their children than non-custodial mothers. So once again, single fathers get more help than single mothers do. - Single fathers often delegate heavily to older children, especially daughters, who may take on significant caretaking or domestic duties, sometimes acting as mother substitutes. Even the kids are helping single dads 🙄 - Single fathers are more likely to be divorced rather than never married, more likely to have older kids, more likely to be older, and more likely to have higher incomes. It's obviously easier to raise older kids than babies & toddlers, easier to be a single parent with more life experience, easier to be a single parent if the other parent is at all in the picture, and easier to be a single parent with more money. - Plenty of studies show no big differences between single mother & single father households, or the disadvantages of one side do not only favor single fathers. - Studies show single mothers do just as well as single fathers & 2-parent households (and better on some measures) when income is accounted for. - One study found that children of single fathers have worse access to healthcare regardless of poverty status. - Even some studies that show children of single fathers have better academic outcome & fewer internalizing problems like anxiety, they still show *more* externalizing behaviors & substance use. This could lead to an interesting convo on female vs. male coping behaviors & how that impacts our children if we weren't defensive & honest about it. - Single fathers are outliers. Single fathers are less than 8% of all fathers; single mothers are 25% of all mothers. This obviously impacts research because they'll compare 3,202 single mothers to a mere 307 single fathers. If the men who aren't in the picture were the ones raising kids, I imagine we'd see plenty of negative outcomes from those men. - The negative traits displayed by children of single mothers are often heavily linked to POVERTY. Yes, that matters, because it means all mothers aren't incapable, it just means poverty is bad for kids. - When I search “single fathers are better than single mothers” on X, I basically never see a source cited. I thought men were the rational sex? I want to make one thing clear: I have the utmost respect for single dads doing a good job. I am fierce in this post as a response to the claim women are incapable of parenting, not as a shot at single dads. Links to all of this below.

Is it both now that should pay? 😉🤷🏼‍♀️

Especially women. We can wake up one day & all our rights will be taken away on a whim but never for men. The Afghan women went to bed one night & woke up the next day as slaves in their own homes & it haunts me everyday.

Online seksueel #misbruik wordt zichtbaarder, bespreekbaar én steeds vaker gemeld omdat we het erover hebben. Vooral jonge slachtoffers doen eerder hun verhaal. Dit is nou waarom campagnes zoals de #Lentekriebels zo vreselijk belangrijk zijn. Het werkt. nu.nl/binnenland/6398299/onl…

Look at those sketches in the comments. They are beautiful and deserve to reach you too! ♥️