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Today is the 15th anniversary of the launch of avoiceformen.com. 15 years ago today, we began to shine a very bright light on gynocentrism, toxic femininity, false accusations, paternity fraud, misandry and the rampant, hateful lies of feminism. Of all the things I've been involved with in advocacy for men, it is the thing about which I am most proud. A small group of idealistic people nobody ever heard of lit a match under society's ass and caused a ruckus we now see the reverberations of everywhere. To all the people involved over the years, thank you. You all put down your indelible marks. To all the detractors: You can suck on it. @Gynocentrism @rtbrockway @bryan_scandrett @KirbyF53
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Replying to @FWPlayboy
Have you seen what they’re posting about their husbands these days huh? I don’t know maybe pay a little bit of attention lol
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"It is not society that is to guide and save the creative hero, but precisely the reverse." ~ Campbell.
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Yeah, that's where I get my understanding of the #manosphere. From @UN_Women 🤣🤣🤣
When does "a lot of time online" become too much? 🚩 When online spaces replace real-world connection, pay attention. For boys who feel disconnected, the #manosphere can feel like an answer. That's what makes it worth understanding. 🔗 Know the signs: unwo.men/Wrgg50Z8Vqk
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Why doesn’t every marriage have a prenup? #divorce #marriage
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Replying to @RealPaulElam
Personally, what I want is a woman with a solid moral compass oriented toward the Good. Not someone I need to guide at every step. How could she help raise our children or care for our parents and relatives if she constantly needed my guidance herself?
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I agree. Trying to control women is manipulative and weak. But socially? Women are 200% controlled. We all are. Status, media, peers, institutions and markets. Today's pressures often pull women away from rules and healthy norms. That's why they can seem uncontrollable.
Replying to @PotentGroyper
it does not matter what your families values are you cannot control women
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The only thing I need my woman to "submit" to is my rigid standard of mutual respect. Otherwise, she's gone. If I needed to tell a woman how to dress, how to act, what to say, or what to believe, I'd have picked a dysfunctional one. I like my way best. Makes the whole leadership thing easier and more doable.
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Yeah I consider romance a feminist idea, since it traces back to dimwitted female medieval French aristocrats with nothing better to do than bitch about men.
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These subset of men are the true misogynist as their goal is to render women powerless so they can't leave them. They will viciously attack you if you declare that you don't want a government allocated wife or to take part in their sad pathetic fantasy.
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In the days before women became narcissistic and shut out extended family members, mothers had 50% of the childcare taken off her hands by alloparenting, which allows her to labor and earn income. Mothers can still do that if they learn to stop alienating entire family networks.
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Efectivamente... durante generaciones, A NADIE le ha interesado la "salud mental", y especialmente insignificante es la de los hombres. Hemos convertido "lo femenino" en lo único aceptable y """bueno""", en el centro de "la civilización". Lo vamos a pagar muy caro.
Replying to @LisaBritton
Respectfully, this misses the point. The entire mental health field is an ideological ghetto. The education and training are misandric, and male therapists are indoctrinated right alongside women. The entire field is a wash. Men need connection to other men, away from misandric narratives and female influence.
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I normally DGAF about Taylor Swift news stories, but this one is interesting. Her attendance rule for her wedding is simple. Unless you're marrying the state, or plan to, you are not invited. Those slaves gotta stick together, amiright? foxnews.com/lifestyle/taylor…

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Why is a relationship with a child required for custody, but not for child support? #parenting #children
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This will likely break a few tradcon brains, but in the current economic climate it needs to be said.
In the days before women became narcissistic and shut out extended family members, mothers had 50% of the childcare taken off her hands by alloparenting, which allows her to labor and earn income. Mothers can still do that if they learn to stop alienating entire family networks.
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'Under @QasimRashid's blueprint for social justice, men and boys will be properly shamed and brought low before women, forced to accept blame for the harms they have allegedly caused (over centuries), and made to foot the bill' @JaniceFiamengo open.substack.com/pub/fiamen…
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🔥This. Especially in male tradcon culture. This is their romantic fantasy's underbelly in one paragraph. And it never turns out that way for them. 🤣
Replying to @RealPaulElam
Grown men with 12 year old psyches all want submissive virgins who don't work, are not allowed any friends, and must give him "genuine desire" sex 1-3 times daily, and he'll strive to earn all the money and place her in bubble wrap, & direct her behaviours. 50% of manosphere. 😂
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Modern women are taught to plan a wedding, not build a marriage. The wedding lasts a day, but the divorce settlement lasts much longer. Wise words indeed. #MarriageAdvice #Relationships #LifeLessons
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If Women can be exempted from harsh scrutiny & legal consequences due to their heightened susceptibility to Mental Stress ranging from Post Partum Depression to Bipolar Disorder, what makes Women qualify as Primary Caregivers/ #NationBuilders in the absence of Paternal guardian?
If a Woman can't be held accountable for killing her child due to Post Partum, then Women shouldn't be allowed near children after childbirth nor be given default custody, right? @JaniceFiamengo & I discuss @realsiff @RealPaulElam @HoneyBadgerBite @girlwriteswhat @Oneiorosgrip
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Replying to @RealPaulElam
Alcoholism & gynoholism probably have a shared etiology. As an alcoholic once wrote about women... "If they had pledged their love like mine, I would have never needed wine."
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#Truth That first line is a scorcher, followed by 12 more scorchers.
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