The irony of having parents who never learned how to control their emotional reactions to things, is that they force you to learn to control yours to the point you don't have the ability to have a strong reaction to truly devastating things.
Thanks mom and dad.
One thing that never stops getting irritating is when you make a mistake and someone harps on it over and over again.
"I thought you were going to take care of that." I am I just didn't do it on your timeline I guess.
"You said you were going to..." I fucking am.
Fuck.
My brother was having a day out with his friend and found out that the friends kids were stealing food from his house to bring to their mothers house because she asked them to do that.
He mentioned this to me and our mother, who then went full sisterhood on him...
Our mom even insulted him by saying "If he cant afford to feed his kids." Like it's his responsibility to stock both houses of food because his ex-wife doesn't want to go shopping. "But what if she doesn't have the money for..." Then she shouldn't have the kids until she does...
Nothing more interesting then telling someone you need to lau down and have a nap only for them to start trauma dumping on you and keeping you awake...
Too many V-tubers relied on a male audience who were desperate to get fuckin sempi to notice them so now all v-tubers have to actively fight against that stereotype and cultivate an audience who is just there because they like the person's/model's content.
I'm personally getting disillusioned by female content creators talking about men's issues and then seeing them on podcasts and realizing they are just as feminist as the man haters but less inclined to take their cloths off or do anything besides pretend to care...
One of the main struggles you will have when trying to stay in contact with someone who heavily relies on others who regulate their emotions is the waffling between them appreciating you and disparaging themselves while expecting you to validate their feelings when they need you.
Part of growing up for me was realizing that every man I knew who was in a relationship was miserable but at least their misery kept the girlfriend/wife happy.
Every woman I knew in a relationship was still in love with an ex boyfriend from school...
And I didn't want any of it.
Dad going through estrangement: Fuck you then.
Or
Come talk to me when you are ready. Im sorry.
Moms going through estrangement: sends you 400 social media posts leaves 200 messages, and writes 7 essays for different group chats on why you need to grow up and forgive her.
Moms dealing with estrangement: I have to live my life and figure out who I am now. I didn't want to be the only person in your life I just wanted to be a part of your life.
2 days later in a new group chat: tiktok.com/t/ZTBHdjYbL/
Men: I hate this wall. But its load bearing so can't really get rid of it.
-The end-
Women: I hate this wall. Can we get rid of it?
Man: no its load bearing so it can just be removed.
Woman: oh can't we do something about it I really hate it.
Man: no...
-Repeat every 4 months-
Even some of the most charitable content creators I follow are saying shit like "the controversy of putting a woman in a god of war game." That isn't the fucking controversy. Its the token and expected Sweet Baby Inc.-ification of the character.
Why did they age her like that?
I have said it on other posts but seriously why, when Deborah Ann Woll is stunning at 41, and they scanned her actual face for this rendering, did they make the character look like she was baking in the noon sun for 20 years before dying?
Mom: I saw a post that made me laugh. It said "if there were no men who would protect you?" And a lady commented "from who? All the men are gone."
I said: Yeah I can see where she feels like that. But... Men aren't the only danger in life.
Gotta love listening to feminists in your own family rant for 20-30 minutes about how working moms had to do multiple jobs and the dads were absent while the mom managed the house and the kids and her husband and blah blah blah. Worst part is you just sit there quietly.
It's like waiting for a toddler to finish their tantrum before you change the subject. All this triggered from a video where a lesbian couple was talking about how their moms rejected them as adults. After they thought about it they realized their moms never really liked them.
Wild ride to listen to the same rant over and over again and it never occured to the feminist family member that we have all heard it before... Are silent because it's not a conversation it's a tantrum... And frankly no one believes it anymore. The myth of the working mom Saint.