"Build together and get rich together."
Meanwhile, the whole time, she has been a burden on you, even while you were struggling. All she gets to contribute to the "building together" is sticking around, hoping you make it while still keeping her options open. Did I forget prayers? The same prayers she couldn't say for herself so she could become successful on her own.
One time, a girl was complaining to me about how her boyfriend dumped her after he had a breakthrough. She kept emphasizing, "after everything I did for him." So I had to ask, "What exactly were the things you did for him?"
There was this eerie silence. She started stuttering, and all I could gather was: "I was there for him while he was struggling," "I prayed for him," and "I brought him good luck."
If you have that much good luck, why don't you use it on yourself? Or are women forbidden from being successful in your lineage?
Women can be very strategic. They meet a hardworking guy with lots of potential and stick around, hoping he breaks through. Then, when he finally succeeds, they take a large share of the credit for his success.
As for me, I've never been a fan of the whole "building together" concept. Don't build with me. Let's build separately and hopefully fate brings us together when we've both achieved different goals and levels of success in life.
I'll figure out my life to a large extent first. Then, when it's time to choose a woman, I'll choose someone who genuinely fits my taste and preferences. I won't have to be emotionally blackmailed into marrying anyone simply because she was around when I was sending out job applications or business proposals.
The goal is to build together and get rich together ❤️