Do not push anyone into harm’s way that you yourself fear. Everyone is born to know how much risk that can take and for what. Human beings know when self preservation is imperative. I see people asking where is so and so where is so and so? People know when to keep quiet and when to talk and there is nothing wrong with that. You never know what people know that makes them quiet! Do NOT ask anyone to speak as you wish, just speak yourself.
Good day.