this is exactly it.
because more often than not, people aren't asking out of curiosity. they're trying to establish a hierarchy.
who earns the most.
who's "doing well."
who's "behind."
and suddenly people stop being people and start becoming measurements.
have some decorum bro
Hosted a braai yesterday and one person kept on wanting to bring up peopleβs salaries. I wanted to slap him so hard because eeeeuw, thatβs so cringe and crass babe