As someone who doesn't care about who tops or bottoms in Jayvik, I block most bottom Jayce fans I come across. Mainly because I hate how they weaponize sexual preferences as "progressive" talking points or try passing it as fandom activism. Specially when most aren't queer men.
A gay relationship can't never be heteronirmative. And I have yet to see bottom Viktor fans attacking artists and their work because they don't cater to their taste in the same way bottom Jayce fans constantly complain because Jayce isn't the one taking it up the ass.
One of the most annoying things about being a gay man in fandom spaces is seeing fans treat top/ bottom dynamics as political parties rather than personal preferences. Top A/bottom B are Republicans, top B/bottom A are Democrats, A 🔄 B are Independent and A/B C are grifters.
Right back at ya. If only you weren't using this to defend transphobes, homophobes, xenophobes and people who spend half their time online hating, stalking, harassing and accusing others of heinous things just because they won't cater to their taste I would totally agree with you
Also, why are we pretending the while thing didn't started by your people yucking other folk's yum? If you're gonna cry "fandom etiquette", start educating those around you about it. The whole thing could've been avoided if they just left us the fuck alone.
Most of the ones who love to ignore fandom etiquette will happily remember it when it's convenient, or make their own version which suspiciously sounds a lot like the Hays Code. "Protection for me but not for thee". They want to be shitty to others without repercussion.
People are so envious of our fandom's creativity and in such a desperate need of attention that they will go full Matt Walsh just to try ruin everyone's fun. Hope their favorite ships and dynamics keep always getting damnatio memoriae by the fandom. They don't deserve content.