Society rewards hyperspecialization, and people just follow the incentives:
that’s how we ended up with people who can uncover the secrets of the universe but can’t figure out their own marriage,
or people who are respected by all except their own kids,
or people who teach others “how to be successful in life” who are actually angry and depressed,
or people who can solve the most complex problems but somehow cannot maintain a single long-term meaningful friendship with anyone.
You may not become “the best” if you have a well-balanced life, but at least,
you will have a shot at sustainable peace of mind,
and you may learn how to appreciate the people around you,
and enjoy a bit of the rewards that you actually worked hard to earn,
instead of living your whole life scared of missing out on the next big opportunity,
instead of chasing the wrong goals and noticing, way too late, that they didn’t matter as much as you thought at the time when you were younger,
when you thought you knew better, because you were simply surrounded by people who were as blind as you were.