Today I talked to a young person who stopped going to school in Year 7. He told me, when we looked around the school they said that detentions were only for when you did something really wrong and most people didnāt get them. Then, when I got there, I found out that in nearly every lesson someone got a detention. The teachers were always giving us detentions and I was scared.
He said, they really pack things into your head. You get into the class and thereās a āFirst do thisā on the board and you have to sit down and do it immediately. Then the teacher gives you more to do and it doesnāt matter if you canāt do it all, it just keeps moving on. You canāt ask your friend how they are doing it because you canāt talk. Youāre always worrying about what happens next and whether you might get a detention.
He said, I couldnāt do it. It made my head hurt and by lunchtime I couldnāt go on. I know I was learning a lot but I couldnāt keep going.
Heās out of school now and at an alternative setting. He said, I can stay all day there, because they donāt pressure us. I couldnāt believe how relaxed they were when I started. They donāt give us detentions and I didnāt think that would really happen. Iām learning things.
Thereās no way for this to be fed back to the system. No one asks those of us who work in mental health what the side effects are of our local school. No one measures mental health as a key outcome of educational and behavioural policy. No one looks at childrenās behaviour and attendance as feedback on the system.
Heās not an isolated case. I hear stories like his all the time. Kids who cannot cope with high pressure and high control environments and who start not attending school as a result. Kids who tell me that they are constantly fearful of getting it wrong.
You wonāt solve that by fining or threatening their parents. We have to ask what is happening in our schools, and whether many of them are becoming environments in which children cannot thrive. Exam results arenāt enough. We have to ask about the side effects of the system.