If you’ve found yourself grappling with how you feel about sex work in our increasingly isolating dating scene, this week’s pod episode is for you.
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If your post-divorce s*x life doesn’t feel like you’re reliving your 20s, you’re not alone.
Today on the pod, join me and Dr. Lexx Brown-James for a down & dirty conversation about s*x after divorce.
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In case you needed the reminder: it’s okay if your values around s*x and s*xuality shift. Yes, even if you grew up—and, maybe, still are—religious.
And this week on the pod, I’m diving headfirst into that navigating that very situation.
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What role does s*x education play in the resistance?
Join me and s*x educator & author Ericka Hart as we launch Season 14 with a conversation on the impact of colonization on gender, pleasure, and shame…and how we break free.
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1/ Lesbian sex ≠ one definition. Why is that?
Fun facts you probably didn’t learn in sex ed:
~ The G-spot area is near the urethral sponge, which can be involved in female ejaculation or squirting
3/ Tools for shared pleasure (like the @lelo_official Boomerang -- double-ended, dual motors, textured for added sensation) are designed so both partners can feel good at the same time.
The takeaway? Expanding your definition of sex = expanding your access to pleasure.
🧵Anal vibrators: here’s what you need to know!
What is an anal vibrator?
A sex toy designed for the anus that vibrates -- adding stimulation on top of that “full” feeling
Go slow breathe
Insertion should feel gradual, not rushed
If your body says no, listen to it
They can enhance other play
Solo, partnered, during penetration, or even just vibing on your own
A lot of people find it intensifies overall sensation
Bonus for prostate owners
Anal vibrators can stimulate the prostate (aka the “P-spot”)
Which can feel very different -- and very good
Ready to try one? Use the LELO surfer 2 here and code DB20 for 20% OFF: lelo.to/DBxSurfer
🧵What do Sinners, Love & Basketball, and The Notebook all get wrong about post-s*x care?
They give us the steamy scene…but skip the most important aftercare moment: getting up to pee to try to prevent a UTI. 🚽
The Happy V D-Mannose Cranberry capsules are formulated with clinically studied ingredients that help keep bacteria from sticking to the urinary tract so your body can flush it out when you pee.
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