You didn’t hear it because you weren’t listening and you still aren’t, Peter. Legal equality without Palestinians getting back our land and resources, and a complete undoing of the zionist system of economic violence, is a perpetuation of colonialism (as we see in South Africa).
Every time I suggest equality under the law as the right principle for Israel-Palestine, many of my fellow Jews tell me it's dangerously unrealistic, that I don't understand the region etc. It's exactly what I heard from white South Africans as a kid. But I rarely heard a Black South African during apartheid say that legal equality was unrealistic, or would produce more violence, just as I rarely hear that from Palestinians today.