Final thoughts bc this thread was more me apologising for jumping ahead than anything.
With context, this honestly feels like something that was private and should've stayed such. I don't feel like I can form a strong opinion even having read everything.
In light of further news that came out when I was asleep:
I deleted my previous post, I'm sorry I jumped to saying something before anything else came out- I should've waited 100%, but I was about to sleep to the point I fell asleep nearly as soon as I sent my post. I wanted to