As an aroace person that dated im asking myself if I just experienced limerence or felt genuinely attraction. Doesn't change my view on my ex, its just a very unfortunate spot to be in 🫠
people aren't gonna like this but a lot of the real world oppression aspec people face comes from not engaging in relationships, things like next of kin when you're not married, it being more expensive to live along and even corrective rape against those who say no to -1