I am haunted by the Japanese-American girl who I let get away.
I tell myself it wasn’t meant to be, that it would have worked out if it was, but the regret remains.
I'm Gen X, and I was told this. In fact, my silent gen dad told me not to marry until I was 35. It's why I've been writing for 22 years to help younger men. Out of a life rife with misadventures, my biggest 100% regret is not marrying the Japanese-American model I dated at 21.