"We don't do it because we hate Jehovah's Witnesses"
#JWvsNorway
From Vårt Land
By
@jfnilsen (machine translated by Google)
While we await the verdict
JEHOVAH'S WITNESSES: What kind of society should Norway be? Should we protect the weak, those who are affected when freedom of thought and belief is harshly punished, or should we continue to give our tax money because it is done in the name of religion?
(THE WITNESS AGAINST THE WITNESSES: "What I think about most is the meeting with those I witnessed with," writes former member of Jehovah's Witnesses, Jan Frode Nilsen (right). He was moved by the testimonials of Noomi Ester Pilot, Rolf Furuli and Rakel Lima Fjelltvedt (in the column on the left))
It has now been two weeks since a group of traumatized people gathered in Oslo District Court to testify against their former religion . What I think about most is the meeting with those I witnessed with. The strength when they talked about their darkest experiences, the choices they had to make. The price they had to pay.
The witnesses
Noomi told about how, as a 17-year-old, she had to go through the humiliating process of repeated judicial selections only to be excluded right after turning 18. All alone in a foreign country, in a foreign city without family, friends, education, work and money . Noomi told about violence, complex PTSD, loneliness and fear, but also a story about getting up, creating a new life for herself.
I met Rolf Furuli, who has lived his whole life as a happy Jehovah's Witness, but in his older days saw that the religion he loved changed beyond recognition. Rolf was the one who chose to raise his voice . In the world of Jehovah's Witnesses, this is unforgivable, all his lifelong friends disappeared. I met a brave man who stepped in and told his story, with all the knowledge he has from a life in the innermost circles at the top level.
While I myself was sitting in the corridor outside Sal 127 and waiting for my turn, another witness came in with his certificate. The door opened and a young woman came out crying, loud and heartbreaking. She had twisted her soul, told her story with her head held high, a price for her freedom of thought that most people in Norway do not have to think about. Having to go straight in even afterwards was tough.
I think a lot about Rakel . A woman full of anxiety and trauma beforehand, who traveled into Oslo alone. Afraid of not being able to cope with the pressure. But who grew in the moment, stepped in with a clear voice and told his whole harrowing story. She, too, with two full rows of acquaintances from her time in Jehovah's Witnesses placed a few decimetres behind her back. She marked her religious freedom by wearing a cross hanging from her ear. I spoke to Rakel afterwards, she mentioned that if a mosque had given apostates 50 lashes if they left the religion, society would automatically react. "I would have gladly taken those whippings if I could have my family back!", she replied. "Easy!"
The denial
Fortunately, we rarely experience such drama in Norway, but in January 2024 it happened in Oslo Courthouse. It was hard for all of us, including me. We don't do it because we hate Jehovah's Witnesses. We do it because we've seen the damaging effects, we've all met people with big wounds from the process, people who don't get back on their feet the way we do. But it costs. A lot. And we stand there mostly alone.
I think a lot about the denial Jehovah's Witnesses base their defense on. Flying the flag, standing up for what we believed in, was part of our upbringing. We were bullied. But we stood for our identity, the practice. We went around the neighborhood and knocked on doors, even if it cost money. We had to stand for what we were. But the leadership does the opposite. In court, they demanded that the Watchtower's literature be disregarded. Based on this premise, they say that there are no instructions from the leadership of Jehovah's Witnesses. Although their website is full of evidence for our claim, the court is asked to completely disregard this. A leadership that can publish the sentence " We must all be ready to follow the instructions we may receive, whether these seem sensible from a strategic or human point of view, or not" , presents itself in court as a group of individualists who do just as they themselves want.
Resource use
The use of resources Jehovah's Witnesses can trigger in such a case is striking. On their bench sat three lawyers from Glittertind, plus a Jehovah's Witness lawyer. Ryssdal invoiced NOK 6,100 VAT ($576 USD) per hour for its services. Spend a total of NOK 4.5 million ($425,300 USD) on this stage in the district court. There were visiting representatives from the "European Association of Jehovah's witnesses for religious freedom", one of whom got to deliver a long monologue to the judge at the end. The front rows of the courtroom were filled every morning by prominent Jehovah's Witnesses who wanted to own the room. Where we outcasts manage completely without public funds, based only on the desire to have our story told, we meet an organization that unleashes a flood of resources. Nevertheless, it is Jehovah's Witnesses who present themselves as an oppressed minority?
The verdict
So now we sit and wait for the judgment from the district court. Whether one is religious or not, we must all be judged at some point for our choices, the lives we lived here on earth. The person we were. The unconditional love for our children. The work we did to give them a safe and good platform in life. The fight for truth and justice.
Who are we as humans? Do we stand up for what is right, for love, humanity, taking care of the weak in life crises? Do we want to take care of our children, even if they don't follow the religion and the requirements we set for them, the frameworks we set around them? Or do we doubt rules, a fundamentalist interpretation of the Bible? Cut out deviants from our life? Let children take the consequences out there, all by themselves? Without his family, because God apparently requires this of us in some Bible verse?
Are you a person who wants to cut off contact with those closest to you, your own children, because they do not live up to your demands? Who made you believe that God wants this? What did Jesus say about religious leaders who trampled the weak? Who quoted a verse from the law and thus claimed immunity from basic humanity and love? What did he say about those who tithed mint and vegetables but neglected justice and love? If all of this is based on one's own conscience without external influence, how is it that Jehovah's Witnesses differ so violently from all the others who read the Bible without doing this to their children? And what kind of society should we be here in Norway? Should we protect the weak, those who are affected when freedom of thought and belief is harshly punished, or should we continue to give our tax money because it is done in the name of religion? We are all waiting for the verdict. In tension.
Vårt Land has been in contact with all the people mentioned in this chronicle. All have agreed to Jan Frode Nilsen's descriptions of them.