Spent some time watching the discourse and am happy most folks seem to get what I’m getting at, and while I can’t respond to everyone that doesn’t, I’ll elaborate a bit.
Going to Bar Citizen is optional. We give up our personal time to do it, and I’ve LOVED it for more than 11 years now.
But I don’t like being deceived any more than you or anyone else would be. That’s it. I’m not talking about legalities as some folks are. I’m not talking about secrets (I shared the info willingly so that can’t POSSIBLY be what it’s about.) I’m saying I don’t like to have my choices taken away from me.
And I’m saying that if it keeps happening, I won’t want to go to these things anymore, which will make me very sad. That’s all.
Anything else anyone is trying to make this about can do as they wish, but it will never make it so.
I just don’t want to lose loving something I’ve loved for more than a decade. It’s really nothing more complex than that. ❤️