Republicans would like everyone to remember that disinformation campaigns on social media have no impact on elections, pandemics, or wars.

🗣️ White People...Why y'all not out protesting in Senatobia Mississippi with the black folks. The police deployed tear gas and everything at the Walmart.

they hated you and called you "difficult" because you were too smart to MANIPULATE. that's a massive win.

A narcissist doesn't ruin your life with one big act, they do it one little betrayal at a time.

A narcissist would date a mop if it helped cover up abuse and didn’t ask any questions.

ENVY: WHAT THEY WANT TO DESTROY Narcissists target empaths specifically. And the reason is more precise than “they want to possess your love.” The narcissist envies what the empath has. Not romantically. But existentially. The empath has: the capacity for genuine love, internal validation, authentic self-worth, the ability to connect meaningfully. These aren’t things the narcissist can acquire. These are things they’re incapable of. And that incapacity creates envy. The narcissist sees an empath and thinks, not consciously, but in their operating system, something like: this person has something I don’t have. Something I can never have. And that’s intolerable. The envy transforms into contempt. If the empath is good because they have empathy, then the narcissist needs to attack empathy. “You’re too sensitive.” “You’re too trusting.” “You’re too soft.” The attack is trying to destroy the thing they envy. Or the envy transforms into obsession. The narcissist becomes fascinated by the empath. Wants to understand them. Wants to figure out their secret. Wants to either possess them or destroy them. This is why narcissists are so drawn to empaths. Not because empaths are easy targets. But because empaths have something the narcissist lacks and envies. And the cruelty isn’t about the narcissist wanting to hurt. It’s about the narcissist trying to destroy the evidence that they’re incomplete. The empath represents the narcissist’s incapacity. Every act of genuine love the empath performs is a mirror: “I can’t do this. This person can. I’m fundamentally lacking.” That’s unbearable. So the narcissist attacks. Tries to make the empath doubt their empathy. Tries to twist the empath’s love into codependency. Tries to make the empath smaller, less capable, less whole. The goal isn’t to possess the empathy. It’s to destroy it. Or at least to diminish it enough that it’s no longer threatening. And what’s heartbreaking: many empaths believe the attacks. They start to doubt their own goodness. They question whether their empathy is really empathy or codependency. They shrink. And the narcissist feels relief. The mirror is broken. The unbearable evidence is gone. But the envy remains. Because the narcissist still doesn’t have the capacity for genuine love. They still can’t experience internal validation. They’re still empty inside. So they move on to the next empath. The next person who has what they lack and envy. Understanding that narcissists envy empaths changes how you understand the attack. It’s not that the narcissist thinks you’re weak. It’s that the narcissist sees in you a capacity they don’t have. And they’re trying to destroy that capacity because its existence is proof of their inadequacy. You’re not attacked because you’re flawed. You’re attacked because you’re complete in a way the narcissist can never be.

The republican quarter of America is so eat up with sadistic narcissism they’re still projecting ‘democrats are divisive’ as they demonize every The Other & whine their families have gone no contact. Vance is repulsive. His elevation is an abomination.

Narcissists are allergic to accountability. They break out in lies.

Narcissists are emotionally stunted. Their emotional regulation is that of a child: I want something, I rage until I get it. I don’t like something, I destroy it. They never developed the capacity to: wait, compromise, consider others’ needs, sit with discomfort.

Safe relationships prioritize repair after rupture-- including (especially!) our relationship w/ ourselves. That means self-forgiveness and internal communication (literally talking w/ & writing to our "parts") are integral tools to making our most important relationship safe.

Narcissists cannot accept being “wrong” as it irritates their ego and triggers them so they’ll starve you of the accountability, empathy and compassion needed to repair conflicts.

Personally, satirically mirroring a narcissist to highlight their hypocrisy, horrific behavior, lies, and contradictions is not only healing, it’s really fucking funny. To you, which is all that matters.

Narcissists don’t just envy you — they become obsessed with you. And that obsession is a problem for them, because it’s visible. People can sense when someone’s fixation on another person crosses a line. So the narcissist has to reframe it. They can’t say “I resent this person because they have something I want.” So instead they say: “This person is dangerous. You should be afraid of them.” They take their own hatred — rooted entirely in envy — and repackage it as a warning. Suddenly their obsessive targeting looks like concern. Their aggression looks like self-defense. Their smear campaign looks like people just… finding out the truth. What they’re really doing is recruiting. They need other people to fear their target because their own feelings of resentment and hatred need external validation. If they can make you afraid of the person they envy, then their obsession feels justified. Their attack feels righteous. The target didn’t do anything. They just existed in a way the narcissist couldn’t tolerate.

A narcissist will try to damage your reputation before you tell the truth. That’s not random. That’s strategy.