My cousin staying in BLR is married for 15 years and had decided early on to not have kids.
Carrying the DINK title in urban metros till 2020 was really cool (don’t know the status now).
And now, the couple in their early 40’s are not able to have kids, IVF is painful and scary and natural conception is just not possible at this age.
Boomers were absolutely correct with their timelines in life. Millennials have screwed it.
Let’s see what Gen Z’s do.
Meanwhile I have a 3 year old son, smart but extremely naughty.
I really don’t know how my wife and my life would’ve been without him.
Let certain things go as per nature.
Disclaimer:
1. To all the idiots claiming population pressure on the planet.
That is primarily because of dis balanced reproduction in certain parts of the world.
Your not having one/ two kids will neither add/ subtract that population growth.
Even if you don’t have kids, planet will still be burdened by population in some corner.
2. As for expenses, make your lifestyle choices wisely. Don’t upgrade it unnecessarily.
You have funds to do a vacation but not fund a child’s annual education is an extremely selfish reason.
Offer: I can plan your help expenses according to the number of kids you have and the city you live in. This service is free.
3. If you don’t want to have kids then don’t blame it on expensive education and high cost of upbringing.
Just say for “our selfish reasons.” Dont give useless reasons.
4. As for one person in a marriage, who doesn’t want to have kids, the other one should run immediately. Don’t suffer because of him/ her.
#peace #proudfather
DINK(Double income No Kids) couples ka aadha life doosre ko ye dikhaane me jaata hai ki they are happy and doing good without kids ,while being jealous of people who are actually happy