Hi, I’m Rob — a masters student and aspiring writer. Many of the topics I write about have genuinely changed my life, I hope they can change yours too.
Recently I've seen a lot of tweets dunking on university degrees, things along the lines of "degrees are pointless" or "Twitter is better than university", but I believe this mindset is problematic; here's why:
Three reasons why you should stop looking for hacks:
1. They very rarely work
2. Hacking doesn’t help you learn valuable skills
3. Anyone promising ‘hacks’ will likely be selling you something unsustainable and take your money for the privilege
“It is not the man who has too little, but the man who craves more, that is poor." - Seneca
If you're always wanting more, you will never reach happiness.
Just because you start something doesn't mean you should finish it. You have to continuously reassess your progress and priorities - and know when to quit something if you want to be successful.
If you wait until you’re motivated, you’ve already lost.
If you let motivation dictate your actions, inertia conspires to keep you in place.
Action creates progress. Progress creates momentum. Momentum creates motivation.
The number 1 cure for loneliness is taking an interest in other people.
Caring about them instead of being only concerned about yourself.
Go out, talk to a stranger, smile at people, help someone out (don’t be creepy 😉).
Genuine interest build connections. Not self-interest.
Two ways to spend less time on your phone and win back your attention, from the book Make Time:
- Change your default behaviour
- Create barriers to stop the behaviour
Both great tips to focus.
“...motivation is a result. Motivation is the pride you take in work you have already done—which fuels your willingness to do even more.” - @jeff_haden (The Motivation Myth)