Exactly this. There's so much to discuss, but fundamentally they've needlessly destroyed their own reputation. This will follow them around for years; it's part of their story now. If Cov did this, I'd be apoplectic.
The most incredible thing about Southampton and spygate is that, still, so much energy has gone into "err this is unfair" rather than apologising to fans, arranging refunds and going cap in hand to to beg them to stick with the club. They have torched their entire reputation.