I am very convinced that most of them know that you are saying the truth, deep inside they just wish they can go back in time and make some changes but it's already too late, so they tend to use " marry first " as a shield to rubbish your truths, na delulu no worry
Let me even clear up this "marry first" nonsense.
Many of you are in terrible marriages. There is nothing supernatural about you being married. We didn't start meeting and talking to married people on Twitter.
A bad marriage is still a marital experience. Married people do not have same opinion on issues. If what you're saying doesn't make sense, it doesn't make sense. Whether you're married or not is irrelevant.
Your own marriage is exactly what YOU make if it. It is not the reflection of all marriages.