There is a lot of talk about work-life balance and I must apply the same thought to ministry. My last article focused on obedience to the call of God and particularly the recognition of the priority it must be accorded as the very reason why we were born.
Our ministry callings ought to guide major life decisions including where to live when to leave there, who to marry, who not to marry, what vocation to pursue, the company of friends to keep, and so on. However, in day-to-day living, we must be guided by the need to live balanced lives for all-around success.
“I will like to fix an appointment to see you in your office”, my young 22-year-old wife told me, months after we got married. I admire your church members who come for counselling and get your attention for hours at a time. She was up to ‘trouble’, I thought to myself. She is probably not enjoying the tranquillity of our humble home and wants to rock the boat. “I sleep and wake up beside you every day, don’t be ridiculous”, I retorted.
I had to learn the hard way after my hard line changed nothing a few years down the line. Yes, the ministry is a priority but except family is prioritized in daily life, ministry cannot be fulfilled. No wonder Paul wished singles could remain the same in 1 Corinthians 7. Getting married is committing to enormous responsibilities that require a reordering of priorities in time and financial management. Our eternal calling must not be neglected at the expense of ministry but also must family not be sacrificed at the altar of ministry.
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