Once Iā¦
ā¦finish med school
ā¦complete residency
ā¦become an attending
ā¦get that first paycheck after training
ā¦become partner
THAT is when Iāll happy
But then you arenāt.
Itās called an Arrival Fallacy, and it impacts most physicians.
Itās the idea that āonce I get there or once I arrive THAT is when Iāll be happy.ā
But as Gertrude Stein said, āThere is no āthere, there.ā
So whatās the secret???
It turns out you have to learn how to practice focusing on the journey and not the destination.
Design a life you enjoy in the day to day. Not just through the āOnce Iā syndrome most of us suffer with.
Life does get better after training. But then you adapt. And for many the happiness is not what you expected. The light at the end of the tunnel wasnāt as bright as you thought it would be.
Enjoy the process. Not just the product.
If you arenāt, it may be time to ask tough questions. You have one life to live. Donāt waste it.