Something recently crossed my mind, and I want to make this very clear.
If you are friends with someone on this app that Iโm not friends with , or even people who have targeted me, that will never affect my relationship with you. Not now, not later, not ever. I donโt believe in guilt by association, and I refuse to play those kinds of childish games. Everyone is free to choose their own friendships without worrying that it will somehow impact ours.
Since day one, Iโve been blacklisted and targeted by a small group spreading false allegations and creating unnecessary drama. Iโm aware that many of you are also friends with them , and that is completely fine. I mean that sincerely. I will never judge you, distance myself, or treat you differently because of who you follow or interact with.
I also want to be very clear about something else, I will never unfollow you, pressure you, or ask you to block anyone on my behalf. I donโt believe in loyalty tests, ultimatums, or trying to control who others associate with. That kind of behavior is immature, and I refuse to participate in it.
What I wonโt do is lower myself to their level. I wonโt engage in smear campaigns, whisper networks, or petty behavior meant to divide people. That kind of conduct speaks for itself, and I have no interest in being part of it.
Your friendships are your business, and they will never impact how I value or treat you. I respect people enough to let them think for themselves and make their own decisions. If others want to create division, spread lies, or try to isolate people, thatโs on them, but thatโs not how I operate.
At the end of the day, weโre all adults. We can be connected to different people, have different opinions, and still maintain respectful, genuine relationships. I value the connections Iโve built, and I wonโt allow outside drama or toxic behavior to interfere with that.