THIS. & it's absolutely why I love this community. Reminding bros, or teaching them earlier in their lives, how important it is to love ourselves for who we are, kinky, horny & all, and enjoy our genitals.
It absolutely is. Many of us are conditioned to associate sexuality with shame so that we only act in ways that society or religion find useful.
Overcoming the shame and guilt and learning to feel happiness and joy is a key step to a fulfilling and satisfying bate life.