Welp I’m finally trying somewhere. Love the progress. #gym #fitness

Until you address me directly, you do not have an issue with me. You have an issue with yourself. I don’t respond to whispers, assumptions, side comments, or conversations held in rooms I’m not standing in. If it was serious enough to speak around me, it should be mature enough to bring to me. Until then, that is not conflict; that is avoidance wearing confidence.

I overthink. I over love. I over care. but once I'm over with, it's over with.

A breakup is an OPPORTUNITY to: • meet new people • travel • make more money • develop new hobbies • figure out who you are outside of the relationship • become healthier • rebuild confidence • build the life you actually want Claim

COVID-19 might have been 6 years ago, but it affected us deeply. Nobody remained the same. Time feels faster. The energy feels different.People are colder & more detached. Careers paused, some lost their identity. some are still stuck. The world we knew never really returned.

"Don't reply fast", "don't show you care" , "don't be a homebody", "don't always be available". I'm grown. If I have to play these kinds of games for someone to be interested in me, then I'm no longer interested. I operate best when I can be my authentic self.

Hard Pill to swallow as an adult: At some point, you will have to disappoint others to live a life that's honest to you. People pleasing will drain you, not save you. You have every right to set boundaries and choose your peace. You can disappoint people and still be a good person.

Avoid the false dopamine hit of telling your goals to others.

I’m in love with this sentence: “You cannot be interested and inconsistent.”

When you decenter your life from the idea of being in a relationship and focus on elevating yourself, you realize how many goals, opportunities, and accomplishments are waiting for your attention. Your fulfillment in life becomes rooted in your growth, your purpose, and the person you’re capable of becoming.

Perhaps this year isn't about becoming anything at all. Maybe instead, it's about slowly unbecoming all the things which no longer align with you, and finding peace in the quiet return to your authentic self.

Real talk.

"you're a strong person, you handled everything so bravely" Me when I sit alone.

GIRL please get addicted to thinking everything will always work out for you.

Right now life teaching me detachment. Nothing’s really mine. People come and go. Moments pass. Love shifts. It’s all temporary. I’m learning to enjoy things without gripping them too tight. To accept when energy changes. To let go when it’s time.

Everybody wants to be in a relationship for years but everybody is not ready for the the bad days, the crying, arguments, communication going wrong. Relationships aren’t fairytales & it’s not easy. If you love each other, you have to stay solid through it all and make it work.

This is free advice from an expensive psychologist. If you’re an anxious person, do everything for fun. Go to a job interview for fun. Submit documents for fun. Start a blog for fun. Anxiety feeds on importance. Don’t make everything a matter of life and death.

Normalize not forcing your importance in someone's life. Let people do what they want so you can see what they'd rather do. If someone doesn't see the value in having you by their side, don’t try to convince them.

ngl,this year really woke me up. I see clearly now,who's for me and never was. I learned to set boundaries, stop overextending myself and stop pouring into cups that don't pour back. it's not easy,but it's necessary and peaceful