It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out, feed you, do nice things for you, and compliment you.
You should never have to teach someone to do that.
It's selfish to enter someone's life, see that they're a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to ruin their present because you haven't dealt with your own issues. Leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity.
I’m at a point in life where I’m just accepting whatever life throws at me good or bad. I’m not mad, and I’m not angry. I see what it is, and I see what it ain’t. I’m learning that life is too short to be unhappy over situations you can’t control. All you can do is keep moving forward and trust that everything will work out the way it’s supposed to.