Ladies: imagine trying to talk to your boyfriend/husband, and he just flat to your face says "leave me alone, I don't feel like talking tonight."
How many times would it take hearing this to crush your spirit?
I think women view rejecting sex as if men are suggesting a joint activity. Like, "hey, let's watch a movie," to which they say, "nah, I'm not in a movie mood tonight," and men pout for no reason.
They don't understand that to men, it's personal rejection: "I don't want you."