I talk to a lot of young people who explain new ways of making money to me that I have never heard of before. They are also quite successful in these niches, which helps them amass serious wealth. The most consistent problem they have is with human relationships.
It seems that to be very good at what you do, relationships eventually suffer. Pep Guardiola became estranged from his wife because of his dedication to football. So many people I know who are obsessive high achievers frequently have multiple failed marriages.
Most of the time, they go into relationships promising heaven and earth but end up putting their partners in the background and prioritizing their passion for work over all else.
Sadly, both sides are already driven too far apart before they admit that there is a problem. I lost an 8-year relationship once because work came first before anything else. If you ask me if I would do things differently all over again, to be honest, I would not. I should have ended things early.
Choosing your career and success over relationships when you are younger and have opportunities should not make you feel guilty. The problem comes when you have no exit plan. The reason most relationships fail with workaholics is that they have no exit or retirement plan.
Two things forced me to slow down. Health issues and losing money. Without those two things happening, I would have driven everyone around me miserable. The pandemic also saved many relationships, as we were all forced to slow down and rethink everything.
Adversity is almost always a blessing in disguise.