As a parent you shouldn't be telling your kids that you sacrificed your life for them, Itโs hurtful and manipulative, and itโs not true. You chose to have your kids and nobody forced you to have them. Taking care of them is your responsibility.
On the Three Amigos in Java: Records, Sealed Classes and Pattern Matching and how they simplify development altogether .... by @venkat_s#JavaConnectKE2026#KenyaJUG
Along the way somebody was gracious enough to take a chance on you because you had the right attitude even if you didn't have the skills to match. It's only right you extend the same grace to someone else.