What was your great-great grandfather called?
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In 4 generations, no one will know your name.
Not even the people who share your genes.
Stop taking everything so seriously and just enjoy the ride.
The feminine strength is cunning.
A woman's ability to beat you without leaving any scar.
A woman's ability to get you to agree to her idea while making you feel it was your idea.
A woman's ability to get you to chase her whilst you felt it was your idea.
All manipulation.
You need to be attention-span-maxing.
Watch 3 hour talks. Read books for hours at a time. Watch the entire movie, without taking a break. Stare into space losing yourself in thought and imagination. Do not check your phone. The opposite of brain-rot is the will to focus in a culture which wants to pull you every other way.
This is free advice from an expensive psychologist. If youโre an anxious person, do everything for fun. Go to a job interview for fun. Submit documents for fun. Start a blog for fun. Anxiety feeds on importance. Donโt make everything a matter of life and death.
Itโs something that has to be done unfortunately, but it doesnโt have to be often.
Just put me where my people at, thatโs where real socializing happens
Be forgiving with your past self. What's done is done. No sense in beating yourself up about it.
Be strict with your present self. Win the moment in front of you right now.
Be flexible with your future self. There are many paths to success. You don't need life to be a certain way to live well.
The voice telling you that you are not ready has never once watched you do the thing. Your job right now is to do the thing to teach the voice in your head what normal looks like.
The voice telling you that you are not ready has never once watched you do the thing. Your job right now is to do the thing to teach the voice in your head what normal looks like.
I grieve for Nigerian theatre cause so many creatives want to elevate the industry yet are chained by the general audienceโs inability to consume anything other than lekki bound odogwuslop
Nobody tells you how hard it is to rewire your brain so you can allow amazing things to happen to you after so much trauma or hurt. Blessings exist, good people exist, a softer life exists. Let it happen.
I find it crazy that Claude gives you an exact 'formula' for success.
And even crazier that all the other LLM's pretty much repeat this formula when asked.
Maybe there is something to it?
Here's the best LLM for your use case - as of October 2025 (bookmark this):
Text: Gemini-2.5-Pro
Writing: Claude 4.1 Opus
Coding: GPT-5-Codex (slow, good), Sonnet-4.5 (fast, good )
Vision: Gemini-2.5-Pro
Text-to-Image: Seedream-4-High
Image Editing: Gemini-2.5-Flash-Image-Preview
Web Search: GPT-5-High
Text-to-Video: Veo3-Audio or Sora-2 (no API yet)
Image-to-Video: Veo3-Audio or Seedance-v1-Pro
โIf you do everything that youโre supposed to do, every work, where do you see yourself in 3 years?โ
If where you see yourself is exciting, why are you not doing what it takes to get there now?
โNo matter how isolated you are and how lonely you feel, if you do your work truly and conscientiously, unknown friends will come and seek you.โ ๐๐
Brighton & Hove Albion have agreed the signing of winger Zadok Yohanna from AIK Stockholm on a five-year contract until June 2031 for undisclosed terms. โ๏ธ
If you do not have ANY leverage, grit, resilience and time will deliver everything to you at a long enough horizon. If you don't know what to do, work hard on what you already know. Most people won't do that, but that's how you will win.
Donโt ever let someone talk you out of your own potential. Your dreams are valid. Your ambition is enough. The only permission you need is your own.
Stay focused, stay relentless and let the results do the talking.